When it comes to love, relationship or just friendship fear is expressed or shared at some point weather it is personal fear, fear of losing, lock of communication, hidden letter, phone call, fear itself can be feared. Fear can cause a breakdown of communication in itself, causes arguments, fights, some can be solved for the short spanned and there are those that never goes away. Fear can tear people apart leaving a feeling of confusion, exhaustion, even broken. We tend to push our fears aside causing depression, stress, hurt , all impending danger and pain. When fear returns, we more then just panicked , get scared, we become terrified, it comes armed and ready to fight ready for war!.
This is often found in a committed relationship or a marriage. These are and can be brought forward from previous relationships, as to what has and can happen in the present . when it comes to love, romance or just sex feeling such as doubt, rejection, anger, frustration, confusion jealousy, fear will occur it can either be the gas to the fire of love making it stronger or the water that makes that same life dyes.
- Identifying your fears.
- Sharing your fears,
- Finding and understanding your partners fear
Talk about you fear when it occur give the conversation 30 minute or less to fix and move on . This is all a part of life’s process it challenges our ability to have compassion, forgiveness, release acceptance and most of all try to be selfless . don’t let fear take control, don’t let fear be the reason for your relationship to fail. Why let fear run the show?
make a choice, will you let you fears kill your relationship?