With all to consider firstly the importance of work, yes we need a job, yes we need finances but we also need family support, committed special moments. We or partner in saying this we should all find a balance,not easy to find but can be found, let’s start from a person with a busy schedule. Asking for time, in asking for time I mean busy schedules knowing that somebody live from a schedule put yourself in his are her schedule with the advance of two weeks to a month to ensure that time alone with them will become available . The busy party should also make time,with those who require schedule time. However put in consideration job, family, precious moments. Some people would say they live their life in the moment as to see the moment via cell phone, it rings they have to go now this is where I personally take a deep sigh, yes sigh. Let me explain why in this no time is yours no time is precious because on the next call he or she could be leaving for work yes business. Spur of the moment right. But that’s life for many from a mobile ,shift system,to a business person an entrepreneur yes them to entrepreneurs live, I bet live in a balanced or unbalanced whichever suits you best.
Listening regardless of what work entails is that really is a major an import role in any and every relationship . Men as women crave affection special time together the important moments shared is needed to keep the relationship healthy and a float. There is no relationship without problems disagreement argument if you may. Personally in my theory there is no relationship without disagreements arguments misunderstanding conflicts of both interest yes my view on this is any relationship without the least of disagreements may just have bigger problems than what meets the eye. Everybody has opinions not everybody will agree with your opinion this happens every day in a relationship. With this said we should take the time to understand agree to disagree finish our conversation, choose your words carefully , saying only what you mean not what you don’t. For me what do you say when you’re angry, counts a whole lot because what you say when you’re angry for me, they are words you fear to say when you’re not. the key is a strong relationship with safe room to express every and anything that bothers both party.
Let your partner know your gold what you aim to achieve,what timeframe you aim to achieve them. Come to mutual understanding based on the golds set work work alongside with your partner to achieve the gold set.
Regardless of how busy your schedule a time is making quality time is important, leaving when someone’s having small talks coming up with new ideas or to just try new and exciting things together , just spending at all we’re talking about every and anything that helps. everything counts even if it just an hour. Sometime is doing what he loves, sometimes doing what she loves. no matter what it is doable.
It is shown in many researches that sexual intimacy in every relationship is like a cornerstone are an important factor but its not just sexual intimacy that I speak. Holding hands,hugging, playful moments help its not only my childhood what we require affection we also require it in our adult life. Make time in every day ask about there day.
So tell me do you think with all considered that they can coexist work and relationship?